Elery is actually very difficult to keep alive in absolute pacifist runs; I only noticed that after I started mapping them myself. This is because she gets poisoned at the High Crag and won’t make it out unless you heal her.
So the first option is exiling Breden at the end of Chapter 1, which avoids the poisoning altogether. Easy, but with a steep price. Assuming Breden isn’t actually a traitor, which I believe. Another option is 2 INT, which lets you heal Elery and co with your knowledge of herbs. Not bad, but arguably an even steeper price: you’re not 2 CHA.
There is a chain of events that feels like it should work but doesn’t. You can, in the last extremity, kill the Tagmatarch in self-defense and rescue your rebellion. You don’t get the nonviolence achievement, but this is the minimally violent route that keeps the rebellion in one piece after the Battle of the Whendward.
But a sick Elery seems to die before that rescue happens. I haven’t checked this myself in-game, but since Elery and co dying offscreen happens in the sprintdark
scene, she wouldn’t be part of the rescue.
Another approach that should be feasible but I haven’t checked in-game is if you fail to escape the Phalangites and get encircled, you can appoint Elery leader of the escape party. That way, she’s not around when the poisoning happens. But it’s very easy for a pacifist run to escape the Phalangites, once you know what you’re doing at least.
That brings me to a really interesting detail that I think is intentional. A lot of the low violence dialogue with Tamran checks (violence > 1)
for violent rebellions, not 0, which means the kind of rebellion I listed earlier where you kill once instead of willingly picking martyrdom still gets perceived as nonviolent. It does make me think there’s a little bit of slack being given, which I think is good.
You don’t even have to successfully spare everybody, to be clear, or else only 2 CHA would be able to be pacifist. There’s a separate variable tracking if you successfully kept the Rim Square uprising nonviolent, but so long as you call for mercy and refuse to order people to rob the aristos and merchants, you are still on track for the nonviolence achievement. Which I think makes sense: you did your best, and it’s not your fault if you tried and failed to convince others to not be violent.
It’s barely not possible to recruit Kal into a nonviolent rebellion with that in mind. I tried, but you can only hit 19 Anarchy at most while being pacifist.