From her standpoint, it’s logical. From the MC’s POV, however, it’s easily disgusting, gross, and can leave the MC with an even worse feeling about Rebecca (it cements the fact that she’s a liar and a sneak for two of mine, actually, which makes her just as untrustworthy as Bobby–hell, one of those two would trust Bobby more!).
The emotional abuse part (for me, as a reader, and for my MC, to an extent) is in the hot and cold treatment of the MC.
I get that A is uncertain, and also resistant. I get that A fell in insta-love and absolutely refuses to give into it. That’s fine. But to go back and forth between treating the MC as a precious treasure and treating the MC like they have the plague, with very little in between, is not fair to the MC. If A lived in a bubble, then all the weird swings in behavior would be fine, but A has to remember that how they act affects others.
Personally, I think the A path needs another set of options for each time A pulls this shit. The option to call him on it in the demo was a good start, but there needs to be a point where the MC can flat out tell A they’re done (without actually being done, of course, because soul mates, slow burn, blah blah blah). It would give the MC more agency, and it would place the requirement for action solely where it belongs–on A. For those MCs that still want to chase after him without getting anything in return, they would still have that option. For the shy flirts who quiver at his looks and the handful of moments that he actually shows some sign there’s interest, they would still have that. But the MCs who aren’t into the quivering or chasing someone (and feel like they’re freaking sexually harassing someone who has no interest in them) need a way through this path as well.
I feel like we need two different paths to go with A:
- “I’m not putting up with this shit, so if you can’t make up your mind, keep your hands and longing looks to yourself until you do, and know that I might not be here when you finally get your head out of your ass”
- A completely ice cold route where we can out-ice the ice queen. Let the ice queen make the MC thaw once they’ve finally thawed themselves.
Personally, if someone were treating me the way A is treating the MC, I’d think they were sociopaths and I’d get the hell away from them because there’s a difference between slowly falling in love and having someone fuck with your head all the time.
My MC with Adam doesn’t go that far, and she’s only recently understood what’s going on between them, but she doesn’t appreciate A’s mixed signals because they hurt her. And the MC should be able to shove that in A’s face and let them choke on it.
Like I said, I get the slow burn and I get that A is emotionally constipated, but there’s a delicate balance between letting A slowly pull the stick out of their butt and it turning into stomping all over the MC’s heart. For some, this can be remedied through choices offered in the game. Telling A off after the werewolf thing is a good beginning, but there needs to be much more of it. If you want a comparison, it’s much like MCs who refuse to have sex with M while M keeps trying–A keeps flip-flopping in their behavior and the MC shouldn’t have to be forced to swallow the mixed signals. JMHO.
Edited to add: It doesn’t help that the MC is supposedly part of the team, yet A can’t deign to speak their name and, instead, keeps them at arm’s length with the “detective” title. Of course, they claim it’s to keep things professional, but they don’t do that with anyone else on the team, which makes a point to the MC (romanced and otherwise) that they are not part of the team at all and are, instead, an outsider. A’s people skills suck, but this is entirely intentional.