I think the main problem with the Black Magic relationship is that supposedly you talked after that fire-alarm booty call in the first game. You were actually meant to connect. Black Magic did inundate you with messages too.
I suppose that then you discover Black Magic’s secret, shattering everything that Black Magic had hoped to create and spinning it all out of control. Black Magic can’t control you, can’t stop you from seeing that dark side of them. I think that was likely the game-changer, which was the reason Black Magic put distance between you. The reason why Black Magic hasn’t really kept in touch.
And when you kiss Black Magic in front of the cameras, exposing the relationship to the public, against Black Magic’s wishes, again they’ve lost control. Whereas when Black Magic kisses you, they’re in control.
I do think Black Magic’s something of a control freak, that it’s important to them. They’re so used to other people controlling their life, or just having no control at all. It’s telling that their only friends are those Black Magic can control completely, keeping locked away in a room. And that Black Magic thinks so much of their own fans, of the adoration from those quarters and what they will think, while not really having any sort of relationship with them other than as a mysterious, unknown superhero. And there’s Diva, of course, who Black Magic slept with, possibly to get onto the team, and well most certainly Diva’s the one in control there.
I don’t really think that you are just a booty call to Black Magic. I think though that Black Magic is just so broken, so incapable of actually having a healthy relationship, and perhaps scared of getting hurt again, becoming too close to anyone. Not to say that the physical isn’t important, but it seems like in the second game that’s the only real way Black Magic has of connecting with you.
I did find the first kiss in both games a strange contrast to each other. In the first game, it’s better if you make the first move and kiss Black Magic, in front of their team mates too, if I recall rightly. (I may not, I don’t have the game downloaded on this computer). In the second it’s bad if you do. Black Magic is terribly contrary.