There are different kinds of god. Some of them are ascended mortals others are ascended spirits, others seem to… always have been there, to the point they themselves have no idea what they actually are.
This planet has its gods, or had, but there are others beyond the void, on other worlds. And between them.
The mortal gods the people of this world knows were once heroes, legends who transcended their mortal nature and returned as ascended gods. Defined by their nature and deeds, war, storms, authority, sunlight, defiance, murder, anger, love, sexuality, anything that a mortal might conceive of can also define them.
Other gods were born spontaneously, like the Forgefather born from the first embers of a forming world, or Kurrow of the first plagues. Evolving then as the thing they were an incarnation of evolved. The forgefather becoming complete when the mortals first used fire and stone to shape a tool, Kurrow becoming the god of medicine as the first wisemen used the plants of their environment to heal others.
What makes and doesn’t make a god is hard to describe, because they are varied in origin in nature. A “god” only exists in a sense from the perspective of a mortal, to which they are beings of unfathomable power and the living avatars of the world around them.
Otherwise they would be just like us, beings torn out of the void, brought into existence by random chance for no other reason than to simply be.
Why yes, I will hold open the demon core with a screwdriver, what’s the worse that could happen.
Conflicts were common among the worshipers of old gods, but rarely too violent. When you have so many gods to choose from, if you choose to worship one, might as well worship others that align with your vision of the world. Only clerics and priests dedicated themselves to a single god.
There were extremists, but that wasn’t really the norm. What Aquilea brought into the world was the idea that there could be a single god. At first.
Elves are the masters of having zero self-awareness and remembering too late that they will be forced to live with the consequences of their choices.
If they could survive the giant enemy crabs, there probably are… somewhere.