Hi, a little late into the party but I have just finished my second playthrough and have a few questions.
First, excellent read, the roleplay and variety is amazing, the sim really had me going and I felt like my character, like a cadet and later on like a captain more so than in any other game. The game is crazy ambitious imo, maybe even a bit too much as it does feel rushed in certain areas, especially after the half point or so, but overall it was a great experience.
Now, my question is in regards to the romances. I was planning a third playthrough but after doing some reloading (with the editor app) I feel like I discovered mostly everything I wanted in these two playthroughs (not gonna be firends with the mobster or purits sorry :D). And I noticed that the relationships are very uniform, especiially after the school chapter. Is this the case for everyone? I did Kyle first and Luum second, also trying Rachel’s romance for a bit and while she at least has some dialogue when we get stranded on the planet, nobody else seems to have anything unique to say really.
Second question is in regards to Luum specifically. On my first run I romanced Kyle and it was very nice, untill she killed my crew and grew a giant army of synths, it felt rather jarring to not be able to use our marriage and having a child as even a conversation option in that moment, even weirder when people suddenly started refering to her as my friend afterwards.
But what put me off the most is probably the “dating” with Luum in high school.
I liked her from the off, being a childhood friend is always good in my books and she is overall very pleasant, which led me to be very surprised by the turn the relationship takes if you try to make it romantic.
So, you make your move at the party, tho its reciprocated only partially, later on you can ask her if you are dating and she is very casual in saying that maybe you do, she is also hesitant to offer any physical intimacy, even such as holding hands unless you initiate it, kissing or passionate kissing is entirely off the books for the whole 4 years of school. Our character is clearly confused and hurt by her seemingly not being interested and when you talk to her about it, she just asks you to be patient, which would be all fine and dandy, but it doesnt lead anywhere as its simply never adressed or talked about again.
There is also the two weird facts of her dancing with several people on your graduation day, despite you dating and that if you do stop trying to be with her romantically, not breaking up, just stop trying yourself, as the relationship is very cold from what I understood, she finds someone to date almost immidiately and has no issue being publically intimate with them, holding hands, which she was reluctant with our character.
We also later find out that she never told her parents about your 9 year of relationship, if you keep dating long distance so we know there is nothing coming from their side that would make her be this cold and clearly the intimacy issue is more or less only aimed at us.
When you reunite there is no more of that, despite not seeing each other for 5 years or so, she is suddenly fine kissing you even infront of people, but her distant behavior is never adressed.
I understand that she is royalty, I think the issue here is supposed to be that she cant be intimate with you because she is affraid you will find out about her tattoo outing her as royalty possibly, but that doesnt really make sense as she is unwilling to even kiss passionately or hold hands, it simply comes across as her not actually having interest in you and simply humoring you because you are her oldest friend.
Speaking of being oldest friends, there is absolutely no reason for you to not know or have been told by know about her backround, Klk and Kyle know and she has known them less time, hell Kyle even met her parents, it especially doesnt make sense considering you were dating all throghout the school days, not to mention it doesnt make any difference to your relationship whatsoever.
Her explanation as to why she never told you as “too busy” is also rather curt and nonsensical and shows she didnt really care all that much about it.
So really, what was the reason for this? It did lave me decidedly soured on her romance as during the latter half of the game there is very little unique dialogue with your RO and since her behavior felt so out of character and wasnt explained it just put me off quite a bit to be honest.
Am I missing something here? Is it really just the royalty thing? Is she supposed to be noncomittal or flirtatious with others or something? Thats not the impression I got from her at all but Aurelians are very sensual so perhaps im missing something. I just really didnt know what to think so I would appreciate some explanation or someone’s point of view if you can provide it, thanks