I’m about to say a thing that everybody is going to disagree with me on: (it’s a good thing you didn’t put money on that bet, Zyri)
The found family trope repulses me deeply.
I get the premise behind it, it’s supposed to be a heartwarming story about a character finding warmth and acceptance and camaraderie among unexpected allies and all that fuzzy, cozy stuff…
But I’ve read too many stories that attempt to invoke the trope, and instead of finding a family, I find an ever-growing list of reasons why I despise all these repugnant assholes.
It’s either the “family” I’m supposed to be finding are all just abhorrent to be around, and that’s their collective personality, or they start out fine but end up doing increasingly stupider bullshit that I find harder and harder to justify or let slide, or the “family” part of the trope is forced upon me so fervently that it feels like I’m being marched by the barrel of a gun.
Not to mention, it feels almost like an insult for it to be insinuated that my MCs need to find a family in the first place, that they need to have some sense of belonging or else they’ll be lost adrift in a sea of loneliness and hollow despair.
If anything, most of my MCs took a frank look at society and decided the healthier option was to keep to themselves.
Not every lone wolf character is suffocating from a lack of human contact, sometimes they really just don’t want to hang around people. I’m an introvert in real life, the kind where I do better with limited interactions with other people, it’s what’s comfortable for me. If a bunch of randos suddenly barged in on my life and attempted to bring me into their midst, I wouldn’t exactly be overjoyed by it.
Anymore, when I see a story that proudly proclaims the found family trope, my stomach just kinda turns and I stop being interested in it.