This is the thread that I work with: Moderation and Forum Norms
I have updated that thread over fifty times since I made it, making small and large changes. It’s not really rules–these are my norms, but I think a lot of moderators use similar sorts of thoughts as they make judgment calls. Anyhow, I’m always trying to refine it and rethink it. I’m sure I’ll revise it hundreds more times.
I’m glad to see you back, even if it’s briefly. I noticed you were gone and wondered.