Hi @lisamarlin , have you looked at the guidelines for posting adult content on this forum? It sounds like your WIP might belong there, if it has a scene that is definitely not for young readers.
https://forum.choiceofgames.com/g/adult_readers
For the Adult Readers category
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Here is also a wonderful breakdown of options by @rose-court for WIPs with adult content:
https://forum.choiceofgames.com/t/visibility-options-for-adult-content-wips/93506
Finally, there are other threads on this if you type in “adult” in the search bar–you may have to be a part of the adult readers group to access those threads, though.
Generally, no one here can give you the green light on adult/mature content when it comes to actual publication by Hosted Games or Choice of Games, at least not at this point in time. I’m not totally sure that sending an email would be all that efficient, since I don’t believe that the staff has the spoons to go over and “green light” content that either hasn’t been written yet or hasn’t been submitted for publication; otherwise, they would be inundated with requests to “review” WIPs that may never be completed or finished in the first place, or make calls on content that depends heavily on larger context, etc…
Generally, I think the idea is to just write what you’re planning to write, and upon submission to the publication queue, staff will advise on whether something needs to be changed or tweaked. (I’ve never heard of a game being wholesale rejected on the basis of its adult content, unless the author themselves refused to make the suggested changes to make it suitable for publication.)
The threads above can advise on whether you can host your story on this forum, but they can’t give you the hard “yes/no this will/won’t be published” you might be looking for. Without knowing exactly what the content in question is, I don’t think I can say whether or not if two different scenes are okay or not, but generally, adult content that can be isolated and toggled on/off has worked so far. However, it really depends on a case-by-case basis. Hopefully the guidelines will help clarify things for you!