Maybe it is because I had bad luck on relationships. But I always end with guys that tried to change me or force me to do something I will never do.
People have all goals and desires. If you’re not compatible on that one, relationship will be a toxic situation where people just will discuss because both want something the other part doesn’t want.
Other stuff as hobbies food politics are minor stuff. But there are several others that without compatibility there is no relationship.
Intimacy is one of them. The nature close or open in the relationship. If is poli or not.