I’ll admit I’m a bit guilty of this.
While personally, I take some care crafting a character’s appearance (often adding hints to their background in it), I’m not the best at keeping in mind descriptions in other people’s stories unless it is brought up often.
I think someone brought this up above, but for many of my first runs in Wayhaven, I’d actually imagined Farah as white, or at least olive-skinned, not as a ful PoC as she was designed to be. And I understand that may be a tad insensitive, and I swear my intent isn’t to whitewash any character, but it remains a bit of a struggle to reconcile my original perception of her and what the author designed her to be.
Another game I actually had a similar issue with, or well, series I guess, was Cataphrak’s Dragoon Saga. In it, the PC’s country is inhabited by PoC, since they’re mostly meant to represent people of Northern Africa, the Middle East, and a bit of Central Asia. While I’m glad that’s the case – it’s very nice to play a game where I can roleplay a person of color and not feel like the outcast or the minority-- it still contrasted a decent bit with what I first imagined the citizenry to be.
Personally, as an aspiring author, I don’t think I mind some changes being done to my characters in order to have them fit better for your headcanon, but I think I’d draw the line seriously at anyone attempting to tell me to change them, or posting in my threads and acting like their perceptions are the canon ones. I don’t know how I’d feel seeing fanart of a white Seeker or Nova, either, both characters in my work that I’ve gone on record as being PoC (North African for the former, Latino for the latter).
Nah, not at all weird! I do the same thing, for many of the same reasons. I actually tend to use commissioning artwork as a crutch, whenever my motivation is running low. Getting art of my favorite characters done always gets me pumped and in the mood for some serious writing. It’s a great feeling, even if my wallet often disagrees.