This is an example of how I use it in Vampire/St. Louis:
You, however, have wiles of your own. You don't even have to go to a room; she sits @{male on your lap|at your side} and laughs at your @{speaks_english jokes.|jokes, even if she doesn't understand your tongue.} You then surprise her by taking a few moments to listen to what it is she has to say. Before long, no one cares that you are necking in the corner. She certainly doesn't.
I think you’ll end up using this a lot in Stormwright.