Thank you for this, and yeah, gonna have to write that discussion I guess (it is entirely the character you think). It’s been running in my head since yesterday, guess we’ll see where it ends up.
Also, may I just add that one: it’s been really interesting to see a thread like this not devolve into shouting, and two: see that there’s so many others out there also trying to work through this. Don’t have the mental space to write anything clever about it right now, but it’s been nice to see.
EDIT: Writing it now. Getting interesting.