To be totally honest here: These types of threads usually get shut down and are heavily moderated, causing conflict within the community. I’m going to close it until a @moderators can look it over and determine if it should stay open.
In the mean-time, I will link a few relevant threads you should research:
https://forum.choiceofgames.com/t/lgbtq-vs-realism
https://forum.choiceofgames.com/t/discrimination-and-escapism-in-interactive-fiction
https://forum.choiceofgames.com/t/preferability-of-non-gender-segregation-world-in-cog