“Where did you put it?!” or “Where did you put it!?” is wrong, unless you are writing or lettering a comic.
“Where did you put it!” is always wrong (possible exception: really weird poetry).
You can use punctuation to express emotion, but it is rarely a good way to do so. Words are much better at communicating emotion than punctuation. Punctuation is only there to organize the words and make them easier to read.
“Where did you put it‽” is wrong, unless you are some kind of wise ass.