I mean, that does sound like a reasonable expectation (as long as the character in question is willing to say something hurtful ever).
Sure. Not really the point of the example though
The point is that character interactions often feel like a direct predictable result of whatever I choose, instead of characters having their own believable personal and unique thoughts.
I think at the very basics, a likeable character is interesting and motivated. And by motivated, I mean, they move the plot, the plot doesnât just happen to them, because thatâs boring and boring isnât likeable in fiction. What makes people interesting isnât an answerable question imo, because everyone will have a different answer and only the author can really make that decision. But generally speaking, subverting tropes is interesting. Secrets and mysteries are interesting. Tension is interesting. I donât know, am I even being helpful?