I think (or I hope) that we will get a choice as to who leads, even if it ends on a fight for control
Mostly because I think the general personality of the MC doesn’t necessarily reflect how the MC will act on a romantic moment.
I think, if Sera is up to make all the different scenarios depending on if you are good at dancing or not, and if you want to take the lead or not, it would be an awesome scene! But it would also be a lot of variables.
But I don’t think we will get the chance to dance any time soon, and who knows, maybe by the time that scene appears in the books, Sera is dedicating full time to Wayhaven and then we can enjoy all those scenes!