Arternus,
I think you should do what you can to get out of a job you do not enjoy one bit. So, on that front, definitely try writing. However, how much time you dedicate to writing would obviously be dictated by your financial situation. I’ve long said that you can be a good writer and have no sales, while a poor one may and vice versa. It’s pretty much the luck of the draw and finding the right audience. I compare making it with being struck by lightning and by making it, I mean becoming the Stephen Kings, JK Rowlings, Dean Koontz, Dan Browns of the world. Set your sights at a modest income and I suppose it should be much more achievable depending on writing talent and how you speak to people (speak as in whether people find value in what you write).
What I would caution against, however, which is likely going to draw some hate and I honestly don’t give a shit about it, is considering the traditional publishing route. Now, I’ve always been someone who values creative freedom and full control over my work, so I would always be hesitant to go the traditional route unless I was sure it was right, but with today’s world being how it is . . . I feel even more strongly that self-publshing is the better route. The part that is going to get me hate is my belief that today’s world is way too infested with identity politics. In terms of publishing, I remember looking at one of my mum’s writing magazines (don’t think much of them but whatever) and seeing what one agent or editor said. They spoke about how a character/villain made racist remarks, so they wanted it out and they admitted it basically made the work or character worse for it. Took the zing out of it, so to speak, but they felt it was the right thing to do (if I had to wager anything, given my dislike of everything going on, I’d say it was the wrong type of racism but racism against whites would have been a-okay). So, with things so heavily saturated in identity politics, is it really what you would want? Personally, I wouldn’t, as I feel the focus is no longer on simply writing a good story that is either thought-provoking, entertaining or both, but it is on control, pushing an agenda and on not offending people (really, I think no fear of potentially offending people is what makes great writing but you obviously shouldn’t write with the intent of doing so). Anyway, it might be you find a publishing house that is still focused on good writing and story-telling above all else, rather than what your skin color is or who you bang, as well as not dedicated to pushing an agenda.
Going the self-publishing route, however, comes with its own caveats. On the one hand, you have to get a agent or publisher to like your work in traditional publishing but if you’re accepted, you will possibly find it easier to become known. Granted, I know there are writers that have to do much of the promotion themselves and in all honesty, I’m not sure how much the publishing houses would help promote your work if you’re unknown, so you may not want to take too much notice of what I say here. With not being interested in it, I don’t typically pay much attention. On the flip side though, there’s the story of someone like J.A Konrath who had greater success when he went the self-publishing route. But yeah, going the non-traditional route would make it harder to be found. You’d have to do all of the legwork yourself, at least until your work is found and you have an audience who can promote for you. You really only have so long to make a impact on Amazon in my view as an example, while your story’s visible under new releases. Other than that, it’s search engine use and luck of the draw, plus sales ranking and self-promotion (I haven’t used Amazon for quite a long time, but sales ranking does still play a part in visibility, right, if anyone’s in the know?).
Finally, I said about control issues and identity politic issues with traditional publishing. Unfortunately, you’re not entirely free of it with self-publishing either, as you may still draw ire if you cover a ‘disliked’ or ‘not allowed’ topic and you may feel pressured or turned off writing as a result. Cancel culture, unfortunately, doesn’t really distinguish between what side you’re on (people who tout much of what’s in vogue have also cancelled their own books after going after others so I think it was nice they got a taste of their own medicine), self-published or traditionally published.
Anyway, there’s drawbacks to each and I hope I’ve been as unbiased as I can be in highlighting what I view as the negatives and positives of each. It’s worth noting I haven’t written for quite a while, though I’ve been thinking about doing so again recently. I’ve always been unbknown as well, so at the end of the day, I may have some things wrong and not be the best person to speak to.
Regardless, best of luck with whatever you decide to do and I hope I’ve helped at least a little. I think it’s great you’re wanting to write and it should be encouraged even if I’ve been somewhat of a downer. Unfortunately, these problems are a world issue and not just relegated to writing. You sound like you had a lot of views on Wattpad as well, if I remember correctly how many I received there, so maybe you can handle the self-promotion etc. fine.