Hmmm…Kat seems far too controlling, Welles seems like the type to demand you’d genuinely be attracted to and in love with her, which would leave the betrothed about whom we know nothing.
However since my mc first became a soldier because of his late father’s “marriage or commission” demand and the fact that with the way most Tierrans are brought up they seem to be uneasy around elves, I’d say my primary mc chances aren’t good, not when trying to romance Cass anyway.
Maybe my secondary Lord Marcus focused playthrough will have more luck there, as that one at least doesn’t have a cute pointy-eared complication.
It’s too bad the crossdressed Dragoon is merely a cross-dresser and not a genuine (trans) man, as that would possibly have made for an interesting, if unconventional gay relationship.
However in all cases my mc would much prefer to stay a single (unconfirmed) bachelor if he cannot marry a sexy husband.