You are saying kata will want more involvement with kids It sounds like you are saying males doesn’t have involvement. Okay Men and women could work and have a involving relationship with their children. More if they have servants. It is no a reason to say Women can’t work because Children. Because it is not true.
People died for a flu or for a teeth everyone could die in few days just for a scratch… Still men and women worked . More if here there is good food and bane magic… Yes all could go bad my character is male and could get a constipation and die that doesn’t mean he should not working