I went through the whole thread, all 155 comments. To be honest, the comments go everywhere and although it is very interesting, it does not answer my question directly (also, I felt some posts were missing like the original to 144’s response which seemed to be an info source)
The post also did not provide me with any ideas to deal with genderless beings and while it is important to ask people their gender, this is not about the MC.
This topic got closer to what I am trying to achieve, I guess whatever I choose will go.
Should I ask the same poll in a clearer way with more options? Maybe in the polls topic? This topic can be deleted then.