I get the slippery slope argument, but I think it’s misplaced.
Porn shouldn’t be an easy target. It’s massively popular, massively lucrative, a cultural cornerstone for our eros-worshiping civilization. It’s impossible to make a principled distinction between porn and erotic art; SCOTUS’s infamous “I know it when I see it” comment arose in the context of an obscenity case against an erotic film being thrown out, and that’s how most of the jurisprudence has gone since then.
The only reason porn distributors have started to be successfully targeted in the last decade has to do with areas where the principled distinctions are rather clearer: rape, incest, and child abuse. (So yeah, “think of the children” doesn’t quite land here with its original Simpsons sense.)
Unlike, say, Hosted Games, the big sex-monetizing platforms haven’t set up their systems to reliably screen out works that glorify nonconsensual sex. They justify it with “we don’t have the capacity to do that,” “who are we to say what deserves censorship,” and other lines that should have a familiar and somewhat ironic ring to anyone who took part in last week’s Aura Clash discussion. (I won’t link to that since it’s disappearing soon anyway.)
You’re all totally right that anti-LGBT advocacy groups will try to fight to define “child abuse” in a way that catches as much LGBT content as possible. But we’re making it pretty easy on them if the sites we’re defending are hosting actual depictions of child sexual abuse!
Bringing it back to itch, I’ve never hung out there so don’t know how much underage content was on itch pre-ban. But from the media coverage, it sounds like itch’s specific vulnerability was No Mercy, a popular “rape 'em all” sim. Can we spare a little of our righteous anger for the site that didn’t invest in any safeguards to keep out that kind of content?
The payment provider companies aren’t crazy bigots for wanting to distance themselves from that shit – any more than CoG/HG is with racism/homophobia/etc. on authors’ Discords.
Fighting more consistently for “ethical porn” would no doubt play into the picture of lefties as humorless scolds trying to censor the world. But if we don’t, we shouldn’t be surprised when companies whose NSFW tags didn’t differentiate between Lady Chatterley and No Mercy suddenly have to pull whole catalogs.
We’d be better prepared to fight against companies’ / advocacy groups’ attempts to censor the erotic if we accepted the principle of companies censoring the grossly nonconsensual, and supported policies and systems that accomplish that. It’s easier to fight for the principle that LGBT content isn’t unethical than to fight for the principle that companies should have to associate themselves with all content, however unethical.
We’d still have debates on our hands over e.g. getting contemporary Nabokovs an artistic merit exemption… but the fact that a system biased against child abuse will occasionally exclude a literary classic doesn’t mean our systems shouldn’t have a basic bias against child abuse.
Edit: reminded of our previous discussions of ethical lines in IF. A market needs to recognize those lines somewhere, or else it’ll end up being shaped (and to some extent even defined) by its ugliest content.