No, not yet. We are still discussing on how to tag romanceable options. I do think gender-fluid NPCs should be added to the discussions, of course. Do you think that 'Romanceable Gender-Fluid NPC' will be appropriate for addition to the current suggestions?
Also, as for the problem with seeing the list of tags, I have removed the jQuery 'show' option and displayed them by default so hopefully that helps. Let me know if you have any issues seeing the category/tag content. Thanks.