Sounds about right, considering that she’s basically a total stranger.
She had no trouble giving Saint away, did she want to mother us, I don’t know. She didn’t really bother with Saint and as far as we know he’s just an “ordinary” elite demigod. But maybe we were mommy’s little favourite, maybe it would have been a reverse of the Hades and Aeson situation where we’re clearly daddy’s unfavourite.
In any case she probably wouldn’t have been “mother of the year” material in any case, so the real question is would she have been better then Athena for the mc to grow up with?
Anyway it is too late now, particularly with mother dearest on account of her being dead and all. Unfortunately for her and my mc that means they can only meet in the underworld and seeing how that is under “daddy” Hades’ control my mc wouldn’t be very talkative because he would assume any “meeting” with mom is a stupid bit of trickery by Hades and very much not real.