I honestly can’t even argue against your interpretations, because…eh theoretically with the things we know it’s perfectly possible in the way you interpret it. 
Aeson certainly is a planner, a long time planner, it doesn’t seem as if he’s telling MC everything just now (even if he could not lie to MC there are many ways to not tell the truth by, well, for example just not talking), and at least the interactions with Calypso are a little bit awkward on both sides, though you anywayseem to argue under the assumption that he is fake in front of everybody to ensure his surviving/position…what is a fair guess? It at least is pretty clear that he is not trusting the gods. (Can’t say by now if it’s really already hatred or not, though it would be understandable)
It’s pretty obviously that his plan by now seem to be in a great way influenced by him wanting to stay alive(understandable), the only thing we can’t really estimate how much he really is acting in front of others… We honestly have never seen him without being surrounded by people he has to act as hero for, expect the one time in the hospital. We didn’t even saw his interactions with Saint, Calypso and Adonis without that filter (though I guess he anyway would act different around them when MC his around alone for the changed dynamic?)
Hm but you certainly gave me an idea to wonder how honest he really can be to his friends. They may know that much of his hero persona is fake but on the other side they seem to see him as “leader”, what is a position that puts also a number of expectations on him. So, how honest could he really be with them? Even if he wants to (or not wants depending on interpretation)… He could be very used to organize and act and plan alone, so most the things he does are delegating, not “teamwork”. Eventually even with his friends.
I mean by now we didn’t have enough time to crack open his shell to pick apart what’s hidden in Aeson’s brain (that got more graphic as I intended it to be), so we can only interpret what we know about him through others and the few time MC got to interact with him, though I would put a greater emphasis on the one time they could talk without others eying them…
And yeah, as nice and sometimes awkward the dads act around the MC, MC has all reason on the world to be wary. Even if there is some honest affection, they made the Bearer/Bestowers demigods to better controll them and to avoid that Cronus may recrute them for his side (or what do I know, maybe Cronus found a way that would grant him full control other the Essence under certain circumstances, by now his endgame seems to consist of overthrowing the gods that overthrew him. No idea if there is some other hidden agenda included). Considering their power, all the hunting down of MC with the Seekers seems rather…dull?
Or it was also the blocker on MCs powers that made them difficult to find…Or whoever is controlling the mindwashed Seekers did disturb the search for MC…
Maybe both? The blocker should MC protect from being found (by gods) and at the same time both sides searching for MC did disturb each other?
If MC’s powers indeed got blocked by Priscilla and when Saint has cartain abilities in connection to his mother, that may was the reason he was send to search for MC and not someone else? But he was rather suprised about the blocker, so there maybe is also something different going on, that made it difficult to track MC…or it was just some Essence mumbo-jumbo and I put to much thought into it…
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…Why did I write so much? …I get weird without sleep…


. I guess the person behind the person is slightly less cynical than her characters haha
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